“Bathing him, washing his feet for me I don’t mind” Janet Mbugua agrees with blogger who wants women to wash their men

A few days ago Kenyan blogger residing in Nigeria Lisa Gaitho set tongues wagging when she released a video advising women to be submissive to their men in all aspects.

“If he wants to go take his bath, literally wash him. Scrub him, don’t let him do anything, wash him, clean his ears, like how you would if he was a baby. Dry him and oil him,” said Lisa.

The blogger admits that she can’t afford the expensive she lives, she submits wholly to her Nigerian boyfriend so that he gives her what she wants.

“I cannot afford to fly to amazing places or buy certain things, I cannot even afford my lifestyle, I have to face reality because I’m not there yet and will rely on a man to do it for me,” Lisa revealed.

Conditional submission

Janet Mbugua partially agrees with Lisa Gaito on submission. The former TV girl says she doesn’t mind washing her husband on special occasions.

“By the way bathing him, and washing his feet, for me personally i don’t see if it’s a bad thing if it’s on some occasions, on his birthday, valentine’s day…by the way there are some women who don’t mind doing it everyday. In some cultures some women generally feels that’s their love language,” said Janet Mbugua in an Insta-story video.

Janet however disagrees with Lisa on submission based on monetary benefits. The mother of one explains that submission based on material benefit can lead to abuse.

“I have a problem with submission when there are elements of physical and emotional abuse. I don’t think that’s worth it. Lisa didn’t say that. The only part of Lisa’s video that I had a problem with, was the exchange of services, where a woman does acts of service just to get money. There has to be love in the relationship,” said Janet.